babies

Asking for Trouble

Fatima, whenever she talks about a hoped-for occurrence in the future, whether it be a job offer or a safe journey, will piously add “Inshalla” at the end of the sentence. It roughly means “God willing,” and is the Islamic equivalent of knocking on wood: a way to avoid tempting fate.

A Family's Visit to Cape Cod

A Family vacation to Cape Cod

A family visit to a popular seaside destination can go either way. We do our best to avoid sunburns, crowds, traffic and exhaustion-induced meltdowns. But even when these things do interfere, we try to take it in stride. By the time we return home, only the good memories of our adventure remain; and only the good times are captured in photos, of course.

Cribs v. Beds

People are passionate about parenting. This is not news. There are as many different parenting styles as there are fingerprints, and like fingerprints, they are unique and intensely personal. As such, these parenting styles sometimes clash, even battle. Emotions run high when it comes to raising kids and deciding what's best for babies. 

Friends Until the End

I’ve been blue this week. A good friend will be leaving for new opportunities, as they say, and is not likely to ever return.

She isn’t my friend, however—she’s Gulshan’s. Christine is a little girl in my daughter’s daycare. She’s older than all the rest of the children, bright, happy, able to walk and talk (if idiosyncratically). Next week Gulshan’s carer mentioned that this was her last week, and she’d be starting pre-school.

It hit me like a bombshell.

Distance

long distance between family

Every Friday evening, I get a report on a gaggle of babies I do not know: “Nazar is rolling over!” “Rahima tried to take Gulshan’s soother!” “Asna was sleeping almost the whole time!”

I’ve never met any of these babies, nor their mothers, about whom I also get the latest news. Nonetheless, I love to hear about them, even if I can’t keep the names straight and may never meet them.

My Wife's Breasts Are Like Celebrities

Breastfeeding allowed

Living in the city that practically invented celebrity, I know that’s a provocative thing to say, but it’s true, nonetheless. They haven’t appeared in any movies or television programs, nor do they frequent the club scene. Nonetheless—a pair of celebrities.

Baby on the Razor's Edge

A baby with a shaved head

Despite being in a mixed-culture relationship, I am not an expert on them. Every couple, and every combination of backgrounds, is going to have different challenges and surprises thrown at them, that they will deal with in different ways.

How To Begin Cloth Diapering

You’ve decided to take the plunge. You’re going to cloth diaper your baby! But now what? The first steps to starting to cloth diaper can be confusing, but when you have decided on a system rewards are certainly worth it! While some people choose to use a diaper service, washing your own diapers can be easy and provide an opportunity to try many different—and often more user-friendly—diapers.

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